What is a sensory dominance? 

Listening or hearing or even reading is a selective process. Not everyone hears or see the same things. Several people will witness the same crime and totally disagree with what they witnessed. The jury will collect the evidence and not draw collective agreement. Just like reading this piece right here, one person will pick up one thing and another reader will pick up another piece of information totally unique and different.

The influence of sensory dominance is profound. Not only do words influence the trust people have with you, they also influence what messages get through their unconscious filters. Word choices help determine what you and your lover remember, experience and enjoy. One key to setting triggers is to use the “best” words for your lover (and for yourself).

This is because most people want their own preference of sensory language. The other language bypasses them and often times it will be deleted from entering the process of giving it meaning.

Sensory dominance is revealed by the actions words (verbs and predicates) you tend to choose at any given time. Those words reveal the way you are processing information (thinking) at the moment.

“I see what is going on here.” Visual

“I hear what you are saying.” Auditory

“I get this good feeling about you.” Kinesthetic

“This stinks.” Olfactory

“That is sweet.” Gustatory

In the West very few people express themselves using gustatory or olfactory words therefore the majority of sensory expressive words are in the visual, auditory or kinesthetic faculties.

A Visual person is someone who tends to prefer to use the eyes for perceiving as well as for remembering and thinking. An auditory person tends to use listening, hearing and speaking as preferred ways of noticing and learning. The Kinesthetic person is apt to rely on what he or she may call intuition as well as the sense of touch to relate to the world.

Most people use all three languages in expressing themselves. Under pressure, however, one sensory language is usually preferred over the other two, and if the stress is particularly high, they may choose the one language to exclusion of the other two.

For example, you may know a Visual person who, under stress, finds it impossible to listen to suggestions or comments from others, because he/she “sees” clearly what needs to be done to solve the crisis.

Sometimes, you can identify a person’s sensory dominance by watching carefully what interests them. A Kinesthetic person on date will fidget, play with their hair. A Visual may stare at you without really seeming to focus-they may even look you up and down. An Auditory may ramble…

Careful observation can sometimes give you a clue to a lover’s preferred language.

Framing In Hypnosis For Sex

Hypnosis for sex is a prime area for you to learn and perfect your skills of framing because of the taboo nature of sex you’ll really learn how to think on your toes.  There are certain frames you all have that rule the ways in which you live your life, believe what you believe and think the thoughts you think.  Frames are apparent in everyone’s everyday lives.

In sex, we will find frames that are induced by religious doctrinarian, by the Madonna-Whore complex and many social undertones. So often times we will have to combat these with either the Meta Model questions but in general in pre framing what hypnosis for sex is all about. So lets talk about pre framing.

You can agree, that part of your time as a human is spent defending and convincing others to see things the same ways in which you see them.

This is natural it is a way in which people state their opinions and contradict or view others opinions.  The interesting thing about frames is that they can change depending on the amount of information a person has or new information that is introduced to them.

Part of your goals as a hypnotist for sex will be to use frames, change them and take control of them in order to direct interactions the way that is healing and helpful for other people.

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Hypnosis Script For Performance Anxiety

Now lets look at this hypnosis script for performance anxiety.

To treat this type of problem you have to replace the negative images of failure with positive images of success and sexual triumph. Then you stack those images with feelings.

I elicit their criteria for the session and I also elicit a time in their past they had great sex.

If they never had great sex, and only experienced performance anxiety, I ask if they can imagine what it would be like to have great sex. If he could, how would he?

If so, I have him tell me about it. I then ask him to give me vivid images of what he/she sees, what he/she feels, what he/she experiences.

Then I deliver back to him in trance a similar story of one he gave me (or I invent one) and wherever possible should be varied to match what the client signals he likes a lot or does not like.

The  hypnosis script installs a memory of a wonderful satisfying sex session that gives him what he wants and leaves the woman happy and wanting more.

The key  with this preframe is to get him to understand that he has experienced a good time during sex. At least once in his life.

And since he experienced it once before he can have it again.

This is building upon his own natural resource state.

Hypnosis Script For Performance Anxiety

“It’s odd to think of you sitting there now… just breathing gently… wondering about… how easily… how quickly… you can go into that lovely relaxed state…

While wondering… maybe you can imagine someone just like you… some other person wanting to go into that relaxed dreamy state… and how you could help that person into that state of comfort… of quiet relaxation… and you might imagine saying to that person… become aware of your breathing… of how your breath moves gently in and out… and tell them… how on every breath out … you can relax a little more… and just rest for a few moments… and allow time to relax… deeply… completely… and notice how that relaxation progresses… smoothly…”

And imagine yourself now… going home … back to your place… it might be at night…or it could be in the morning or the afternoon, but the place empty… no one around…
just you and her there… and you can see yourself meeting… saying something… to a woman there… she has been waiting for you…
and she smiles, and she moves in close… and she puts her arms around your… and you are stroking her face and her hair… looking into her eyes… imagine now you are running your thumb across her lips… holding her head… kissing her face… and she slowly unbuttons her top… and she slips her top off… it falls to the floor…”

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What Is Erotic Hypnosis?

It’s not like what you see in the movies – you will not cum in your pants (unless you want to).

Erotic hypnosis is a natural state of selective, focused attention for sexual purposes, and, even though it is 100% natural and normal, it remains one of the most fascinating subjects of the hypnosis.

Our ability to enter this unique state of consciousness opens the door to countless possibilities for orgasm, self-exploration and changing behaviors and habits.

Erotic Hypnosis, called by different names in different scene and times, has been recognized for thousands of years and used for many purposes.

When we enter into the total-focused state of hypnosis, we can use our thoughts, senses and experiences in ways not usually available to us.

With the help of a trained professional hypnotist, we can develop intense, individual abilities that enable making desired changes in orgasm on command, sexual dysfunctions and intimacy possible.

The deep concentration  of hypnosis allows changes to intentionally be made “automatically”, changes that we could not ordinarily consciously make, changes we might even resist.

Erotic Hypnosis has been used in the treatment of vaginal pain, erectile dysfunction, performance anxiety, stress, habit disorders like retarded ejaculation, and many other psychological and medical problems.

Not only that, it’s been used to enhance intimacy between couples. To create a new spark, to create closeness and to help a loved one release all stress and tension in their body for them to awaken sexually.

It is also used in BDSM. Many people use it to dominate their subjects sexually. To inhibit their sexual responses like orgasm, to edge them, to extend or decrease the pleasure. And to install specific behaviors, fetishes and fantasies.

However, it may not be useful for all sexual problems or for all people. The decision to use erotic hypnosis as a component of treatment can only be made in consultation with a qualified healthcare provider who has been trained in the use and limitations of clinical hypnosis. Especially if using hypnosis for erectile dysfunction or any other physical impairment.


Hypnosis For Female Orgasm?

Hypnosis for female orgasms – can it really help?

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, better orgasms, and better relationships.

In the media, and the self-help and sex-therapy communities, the exhortation to improve our sex lives borders on the relentless.

But how often are we presented with a set of tools that will enable us to truly understand our deepest desires?

I think of the statistics compiled by researchers at the Kinsey Institute, which show that 75 percent of men consistently reach orgasm with their partner, where only 29 percent of women can say the same.

Furthermore, according to a 2009 study conducted by researchers at Indiana University’s Center for Sexual Health Promotion, an astonishing 74 percent of women have faked orgasm.

Meanwhile, only 55 percent of men in the same sample believed they could tell when their female partner is faking. But can they?

Talk to any heterosexual male, and he will fancy himself an expert on female sexuality. But do they even have a clue?

That is to say, chances are, your woman is faking and you don’t even know it. And if you’re a heterosexual woman, you aren’t just lying to your man, you’re lying to yourself.

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